Generally, a person seeking counseling from a life coach is in need of guidance, direction, or encouragement. It didn’t take long for Islamist monster Sibel Üresin to figure that out, and use the profession to push sharia compliance on her clients.
Hailing from Turkey, Üresin (not to be confused with urine) has been the subject of controversy in the past, but now she’s drawn the anger of women’s rights activists everywhere. She must really hate herself, considering the amount of vile misogyny she spews – then again, with a hideous face and non-existent rack or moral compass, who could blame her?
“Women talk ceaselessly. It is the woman’s fault if she is killed.” So apparently it’s OK for men to kill their wives who won’t shut up? Women who have abusive husbands should shut them up! And maybe some women talk a lot because they have something important to say. Sure, others go on and on through their wardrobe asking whether or not each outfit makes them look fat, but I highly doubt that’s the majority of women and it sure as hell isn’t a reason to raise your hand to her.
Üresin also commands women to pretend to be less knowledgeable than their husbands on all subjects. “It looks better on a woman to be naive, polite and soft, and that’s how it is in our religion,” she said, basically spitting in the face of women’s equality. It looks better on a woman to be polite, sure, but naive and soft? No thanks – “soft” is quite possibly a euphemism for “fat.” All humor aside, strong, educated women across the Islamic world need to take a stand and put their husbands in their place if they make demands like Üresin is asking of them. Contrary to Islamic teachings, marriage is an equal partnership – neither partner should submit to the other by default.
Üresin has also supported polygamy, and has even told her own husband to take a second wife. I have no idea why a man would ever grow tired of a spineless doormat like Üresin… she must be really exciting in bed when she closes her eyes and makes her husband do all the work, since she probably thinks enjoying sex isn’t her place as a wife. Üresin gives her life-coaching clients this kind of advice. Hopefully they recognize it’s bull and storm out of her office without paying her.
Men also weren’t exempt from Üresin’s criticisms: “Really, I know some women that never shut up. It is very normal that her husband’s going to go crazy. The biggest weapon a woman has is her ability to hold grudges and show that through her attitude, but men resort to violence, because they are built that way.” Üresin forgets that most men aren’t hyper-aggressive and actually love their wives, and probably won’t resort to violence when their wife won’t be quiet. They’ll just move to another room and turn the TV up until their wife gets the hint.